He doesnt want to meet my friends at all?

I have been talking to this guy for a while just as friends. Well here lately we have been talking baout hanging out with no commitments and he said he wud b the best bf ive ever had but he wudnt tell neone we were together and we may fall in love but he doubts it and if we do then he will tell ppl were together but he wants to do sexual things and if i dont want too i can say no b/c he "likes the chase". I asked him too come hang out with some friends at my house and he asked if it was guys and I said yes and he said no because it would be weird and he would be paranoid that they wanted too get with me. But he doesnt want me too meet his friends only his best friend because he said that if i met them (some girls) that i might get mad at the differnce in the way he would treat them and i. what do you think he is really up too? he promises he wont hurt me, but how can he know?

He doesnt want to meet my friends at all?
The fact that he doesn't want your relationship to be public knowledge, should tip you off right away that this guy is not ggod news. This may not be what you want to hear, but he is definitly up to something. You deserve a guy who likes you so much he wants to tell the world that you are his, not keep you his "dirty little secret", and if he says you'd get jealous the way he treats other girls, then you know right then and there he is not sincere about your relationship. What guy doesn't want to "do sexual things" with out the commitment? And if he says he doubts the two of you will ever fall in love, he doesn't deserve you. I know you probably like him, and want to be with him. But I swear to you, right this second there is a guy out there who is 100% better for you, who will love and cherish you, and want to meet all your friends, and want to show you off to his.


If you're really into this guy, then tell him he needs to change, you want to meet his friends, and him to meet yours, you don't want to be his secret, and you're not going to do anything "sexual" with out some sort of commitment.


I'd recommend though, that you go find someone who is going to treat you how you deserve to be treated. Go find Mr. Right instead!!!


Good luck!
Reply:You're friend sounds like a jealous control freak, or he's married, or both...You need to tell him to jump in the lake! Men like that can't be up to any good. save yourself the trouble and the heartache...he's not worth it, you deserve better!!!
Reply:oh my goodness i can beleive you need a answer. look leave him alone. he will be the best man you ever had. but he dont want no one to know. do me a favor , read what you wrote , like it is from me and tell me what you would say to me , and you do that. i hope that everything works out
Reply:Just from reading that I would say that he is a loser up to no good.... run while you still can!
Reply:Look! this kind of relations are not longlasting. Yu are not equals now. To be able to TRUST is better than to be able to LOVE. He wants to OWN yu. But he doesn't letyu do the same. ( actually it is wrong to try to own each others) And It is not fair. No need to be a "future teller" to say " yu will be sad at the end".. sorry. But reality is this. Don't try to change his personality. ( you can't change him by talking )Only leave him at the beginning..

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