How would you feel or react, if ur girlfriend got text messages to meet up with our friends to talk about u?

I am a lesbian and I have been with my girl n her 3 kids for about a year and a half now. These past few months its been a little rocky between the 2 of us mainly cause I got mad alot for little things and would yell alot, n she was not showing me love anymore so I told her I would change n be bac to my old self. Pretty soon we should be moving to another house and I found out that one of our friends had already seen the house because she had planned to leave me but finally didnt cause I was changing. Now the other nite our friends sent her texts while we were watching tv with kids and she got up and said I have to go n meet our friends at the coffee place so when I said k well I'll go with you she responded no they just want to see me. When she got home she said that the reason I could not go was because they wanted to know how it was going in our relationship. That hurt me very much cause I've always been there for her n I couldnt believe that she cannot talk to me bout us.

How would you feel or react, if ur girlfriend got text messages to meet up with our friends to talk about u?
I think you're overreacting...again.
Reply:Friends are completely separate from relationships. Your girl probably wanted an outsider's perspective and your friends were concerned about her. Have you honestly never wanted to talk to someone OTHER than her about your relationship? Sometimes it's easier, and a better decision.





It's not a matter of not being able to talk to you about it. She needed time alone with friends. It's natural. Don't sweat it.
Reply:it not the fact she didn't want to talk to u


but when you go Wit someone you cant talk to them about them its always good to talk to people outside of the relationship to get there opinion so i wouldn't get so mad i would just talk to her about it and how it made you feel
Reply:i don't know what to think..


maybe she doesn't feel the same.. but it could also be many other things... people need space!! give her some space! let her think things through and decide what she wants... how can you know she was saying bad things about you to her friends???? maybe she was telling them how you've changed and it's all getting better???