Friday, April 16, 2010

Im really scared to meet his friends.!?

alright.


the guy that im going out with now, i went out with him a year ago.


i met his friends(some of them) before like when we last went out.


and i feel like i totally made a fool outta myself.(it was at a skating rink and i fell on my butt and barly tlked half the time cause im really shy meeting new people.)


so this time we are all going to a corn maze.


its his friends and their girlfriends and different ones from the rink.


they all go to school together.


i feel like im gonna be the odd man out as it is. and then im always just quiet.


i wish i could be myself when im around them and make a good impression. im just really scared and nervous cause i dont wanna feel uncomfortable and like be quiet the whole time.


so what can i do to not be so worried and nervous and to be smooth about it.?


thanks:].

Im really scared to meet his friends.!?
I know just how you feel. My b/f has really different friends and they all act stupid when they get together. What I do is just back away and be perfectly polite. Don't sugar coat anything, but be really nice and nothing can go wrong.
Reply:ya i went through this last weekend...it was a bit awkward i must admit only cuz i didnt really know anyone or what they were talking about, but the guy i was with was nice enough to bring me in on the convo and let me know what they were talking about and asking my opinion on it...im a really shy girl so most of the time i was just quietly sitting there, but whenever a topic came up that i could put my input in, i did...so just look out for those moments and don't be shy when they arise...don't assume they think you're wierd or stupid or whatever cuz that's what i tend to do...just be confident and offer your opinion and be nice and im sure you will be fine...overall, just have a good time...if a moment should arise where you have been sitting quietly for too long and you start feeling wierd, just like pick up your phone and text message a friend or call someone and excuse yourself or something just to occupy yourself and show them that you're not just bored out of your mind around them...be yourself, have a good time

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