What does it mean when the woman you are seeing says she is not ready for you to meet her friends yet?

I am in my 30's and the woman I am seeing is in her late 20's. We met about 5 months ago and started dating a bout 4 months ago. Things were really good and we talked all the time and went out a couple of times a week. We live about an hour apart so it is a challenge sometimes. Lately she has had a lot going on in her life, death of an aunt, sister got pregnant, and work problems. I understand all of that and have gave her space to deal with it, but it seems like lately she doesnt' answer my texts or just a short one line and not answering my questions. She doesn't take a lot of my calls and I have to schedule a time to talk with her. Anyway yesterday I asked her why she didn't want me to meet her friends. She said that until she was sure I was here to stay she was ready to make that introduction. She said she has always been that way. She says she loves me all time time and I believe her but I keep getting insecure becausue of the mixed messages.

What does it mean when the woman you are seeing says she is not ready for you to meet her friends yet?
Its hard to say, maybe shes had alot of things in her life that have left and so thinks youll do the same. Why introduce you to her friends if "youre not going to be around". I use to have a bad habit of introducing my new significant other way too soon to my friends. It would then not work out. That and you said she might just have alot of things going on in her head she has to deal with. Im not saying that you are, but do you think you are giving to her too much? I know I used to go overboard and pay too much attention to that person.
Reply:she is ashamed of you
Reply:i dont think she needed her space at that time. I think she wanted you to be there for her. And thats why she "not sure" for you to stay
Reply:well just give he r a little space
Reply:That just seems fishy to me. sorry. Normally when people act that way it means that they are seeing someone behind your back or perhaps you are being seen behind their back. Unless she has extremely judgmental friends who ***** at her about everyone she dates which would mean she needs to look for better friends.
Reply:exactly what she said because they maybe crazy people or she is insecure about the relationship...
Reply:Well, it seems like she's embarressed by the age difference.