Boyfriend wants to meet my friends, but I don't want him to?

I just moved to a new town this fall, and I'm slowly meeting people. I don't have any close friends yet, but I do have acquaintances I hang out with sometimes. My LDR boyfriend is coming into town this week and he wants to meet the people I talk about. I don't feel comfortable with this yet because I don't feel that I've fully established myself in the group of people I hang out with. I still feel awkward, so I'm not sure I could handle introducing another new person into the group. Also, this is only the second time this year that he's visited me at school. I almost feel that he's not enough a part of my life to justify him meeting my friends. It's like, "Hey, guys, here's my boyfriend, who you'll only see once a month at most." Is it bad that I don't want him to meet them? How can I handle the situation gracefully? Should I just let him meet them, try to put him off, or explain to him how I feel?

Boyfriend wants to meet my friends, but I don't want him to?
I understand. Just tell him that you're not close with those people yet and than it would make you feel silly. Also, you'd like you spend your time alone with him, not chatting with a bunch of strangers.
Reply:Just tell him you dont feel you know them well enough yet to introduce them. If he has a problem with that its his problem not yours.
Reply:It's all about your own comfort level.





Also he might be persistent to establish himself as your official boyfreind.





Your unwillingness may trigger a cascading effect that leads to your breakup.





I personally don't see it as a big deal, but if you are feelign resistant, you are not being bad, but you should ask yourself why you are feeling this way about him.
Reply:You're a smart girl. I think I want to meet your friends too!
Reply:if you ask me....then this is bad that you dont want to introdue him to your friends.......That doesnt matter hw far you are or how odften you meet....to show that he is ur bf....





If you believe in all these things that u will not see him everyday so can not make him meet ur frens.......then its wrong....





After all what is the harm????? and if he is ur bf then u shld be happy to introduce him to ur frens......





IF u dont then why u had an affair with him at first place???? think!!!
Reply:Tell him you are not that familiar to the point of active socialization w/ them.
Reply:That happens to me all the time since I got a lot of peers from different fields and interest. I start introducing my GF by actually telling something we do together. It's like metioning something of about your BF then they will ask (hopefully soon) about your BF. They thats it...thats the start you let them meet you BF. I hope it make sense.