My boyfriend dosen't want to meet my friends. Is this a bad sign?

Me and my b/f (im 18, he's 23) dosent want to meet my friends. We just had a daughter after bein g together for


2 1/2 yrs and my friends were throwing me a dinner party in honor of the baby. He refuses to come b/c he said he'll feel uncomfortable. We plan on getting married and I dont want this to be a problem. My friends are a part of my life and so is he. I would think he'd want to meet them. Am I wrong for being upset?

My boyfriend dosen't want to meet my friends. Is this a bad sign?
You are not wrong for being upset. He should definitely meet your friends, but maybe in a different setting. And maybe not all at once. He could just be uncomfortable being around that many new people all at once. Maybe introduce one friend at a time and go from there. He should get along with your friends, and see them from time to time. But they are YOUR friends. Just because you two are practically married does not mean that he has to be friends with them too. Meet them and associate with them from time to time, but be "best buds" or whatever, not necessary.
Reply:you aren't wrong, but be nice to him. i was shy about meeting my husband's friends when we were dating. i didn't really fit in with his friends. but even though i felt uncomfortable around them, i tried to spend time with them because i love my husband so much. if he loves you, he should be able to ovecome whatever it is that's stopping him from meeting your friends. give him some time, and if you picked right, he'll come around!
Reply:sounds fishy. good luck and god bless, though. i'll pray for you, for what it is worth.
Reply:u guys were dating for 2 yrs and he never meet ur freinds? thats kinda wierd i think but hes gonna have to meet them eventually...
Reply:WELL MAYBE HE JUST REALLY FEELS TOTALLY UNCOMFORTABLE. HE MUST THINK THEY ARE GOING TO DISLIKE HIM IN SOME WAY. TRY TO MAKE HIM FEEL COMFORTABLE. EXPLAIN TO HIM HOW YOUR FRIENDS ARE. DO FIX THIS PROBLEM BEFORE GETTING MARRIED. NO MARRIAGE PLANS SHOULD CONTINUE WITH DOUBTS IN MIND.
Reply:He's not comfy ok, that's not a problem they are ur friends not his, it would be nice if they got along but it's not a must. Now u, u need ur friends, i have this best friend and sometimes without her i don't know what i'd do, and i have my boyfriend but he doesn't know me like she does so he couldn't help me through some stuff she does. Him keeping u from ur friends is a bad sign, you need to let him know it's ok if u don't like them but they are my girls. U'll know good friends from bad ones, and the good ones you need to keep, because if something is going wrong with you sometimes they see it before u do. Plus if u cut them off and he steps out of line who's gonna come to your rescue?? :) girl i'm joking about the last part. If u loose ur girls u'll depend on him alot, and when u do that people tend to let u down, u need to spread it around a little.
Reply:Nope he should meet them I dont think u wanna marry somebody that doesnt want to meet your friends it seems to me that ur b/f has some kind of problem
Reply:maybe he feel bad that ur friend might get mad at him....make fun at him...?maybe hes a shy guy...OR MAYBE ITS THE AGE DIFFERENCE but i feel so sad...=[

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