My boyfriend wont let me meet his friends and we have been going out for 3 months. is he embarrased by me?

We go to different schools so i dont know his friends and he doesnt know mine. I keep inviting him to do stuff with my friends but he has been busy lately and cant but he always says he wants to meet my friends but when i say i want to meet his... he avoids the topic. is there something wrong with me or his friends?

My boyfriend wont let me meet his friends and we have been going out for 3 months. is he embarrased by me?
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Reply:or he is just shy give him another couple months if nothing happens hes an ***
Reply:that is quite odd but maybe he really wants to make sure you are the right one..than he will introduce you to his frends..but most likely if he really likes you he woud talk about you to his best friend!
Reply:Maybe he's hiding something be aware!
Reply:maybe he thinks they will try to get at you
Reply:He might want to keep you away from them because sometimes guys can be pigs and he probably doesn't want to hear it. He probably wants you all to himself :P


give him sometime; guys take longer at being social at things like these...just let it flow and don't worry about it. if he was embarrassed of you at all...he wouldn't be dating you at all.
Reply:yeah theres probably another girl, or maybe hes just embarassed of his friends if theyre stupid. but maybe asking him straight out will make it easier
Reply:that probablly is it, he has another girl, or maybe he doesnt think that your relationship is that serious and theres no point...
Reply:dont let it get to you im sure there is nothing wrong with you....most probobly with hes friends he may be afraid that they will rip him off or mayb steal you away im not sure. also depending on how old u are would make a difference to the situation.so keep asking if he doesnt wanna let u see hes friends then there may be somthing you need to talk to him about.
Reply:I doubt he is embarrassed of you. He may worry how his friends will react to you. He probably is nervous and trying to avoid the topic.
Reply:its definitely shady .. demand to meet his friends, give him the ultimatum
Reply:He may have just told you things he doesn't want repeated to them but he can't fully trust you to not without explaining first and he doesn't want to explain.
Reply:yeah thats tuff, im not trying to be mean or anything, just honest, but maybe he doesnt care about meeting ur friends, cause boys can be jerks like that. and about meeting his friends, maybe he wants to keep u all to himself. and if hes the right one, eventually he will let u meet his friends and will meet urs. and maybe hes unsure about u idont kjnwoww. good luck!
Reply:your his moped...their fun to ride, but, you don't want your friends to see you on it. Dump him.
Reply:Hey,


Im a guy so i know whats going on... I have friends like this. =( He is embarresed of you and doesnt think his friensds will like you or his freinds will talk crap on you. (about anything really) Personally i think you should have met his friends along time ago. Ask him about it and dont let him avoid the subject k? If he insist you dont meet his friends then i would consider breaking up with him... Oh and possibly he could have another girl at his school and his friends dont even know about you. =(
Reply:Boys can be like that. I've been int he same situation before and it was quite confusing. Ask him if he'd want to do something with his friends and yours so you can all get to know eachother. If he refuses than somethings up.
Reply:There's definitely something up otherwise you would've met his friends at this point. Does he call you his girlfriend? I'm thinking it sounds like he might think that if you meet his friends than that means you two are serious and maybe he's not so much early in the relationship. Or since you two go to different schools, he could have another girlfriend. I would just flat out ask him if there's a particular reason he's acting like this. That has always worked the best for me, that way you can find out and if it's something bad you can quit wasting your time with him.
Reply:*hee hee*


I love the way "IanswerR" had to clearify that he is in fact a guy....


Anyway, a bunch of they guys I know tend to keep gfs away from their friends because a) their friends give them and their gfs crap and b) the don't want to scare their girl away or get her stolen or whatever.


Don't overreact.
Reply:That doesnt mean hes embarrassed by you. He could just be a jerk. Ask him why? You have the right to know.
Reply:Perhaps he is just nervous, and doesn't feel overcoming his little shyness issue at the moment to meet your friends(I have no evidence of this, but it is possible). How old are you two? I would say that he may act differently between you and his friends. This would most likely be why he wouldn't want you to meet them. The two tie together with the possibility of his insecurity.
Reply:ok ya he might be a little embarassed but thats kool cuz your better then him or maybe he doesnt have any friends and he dont want to you think he is a loser or sum crap like dat..or i really dout it but maybe another girl...or maybe you got a odd one and he really just wants to wait....there is never a really good way to with guys
Reply:i have read some of the other question and i think he is doing something he don't want you to know or he is shame of you there know reason he can't take you to meet his friend go out to bowling or something i'm not feeling it my friend we party together all the time.
Reply:there are 3 possible answers.


1.he has a girl and his friends met her.


2.birds of the same feather flock together.he does'n't want you to meet them because you might judge if you found out the kind of friends he keeps.


3.he's not serious.
Reply:Maybe he doesn't have friends