Monday, November 16, 2009

My shy boyfriend doesnt want to meet my friends. what should i do ?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for just about a month. We have known each other for a few years. Well since we have gotten together we have hung out with his friends. and i have kinda pushed my friends away. so i asked him to go meet my friends and lets go hang out with them. he refuses to meet my friends. i feel like this my cause a big strain on our relationship. what can i do?

My shy boyfriend doesnt want to meet my friends. what should i do ?
He thinks your cooler than he is
Reply:wow...i guess were both in a same sitaution...my bf too don't like to hangout w/my friends. plus he doesnt like them too..





my option we cannot force them if they dont want to isn't??? plus i dont see any problem if he haven't met your friends yet. if your friends teased you cuz of that....well it just mean they are being narrow minded. last saturday my friends was teasing me cuz my bf wasn't with me in the party that i went. yap they are teasing me and telling bad stuff about my bf....that maybe his out with someone...something like that....





first of all you should see your friends situation too in terms of their lovelife......if your friend is heart broken...i'm pretty sure that friend of yours will try to put your man down THATS 100% SURE cuz for her/him all man/lady are pigs. you know what i mean....





any how dont pressure your bf about this sitaution.....maybe he has a reason why.....good luck
Reply:try to get him to a place that your friends. be like "HEY! what a coicidence my friends are here!" and then grab him by the hand and drag him over there. If he doesnt want to, thats his problem he doesnt want to get to know your friends.
Reply:That is not right. Here is why, I know you like this guy, but what happens if you break up and you have pushed all of your friends away? Moreover, you should still feel that you can hang out with your friends maybe once every few weeks. Why don't you tell him you want to hang out with your friends and he can hang out with his friends every so often?


Don't loose your friends over a guy.
Reply:hes just woried they wont like him. Just "accideltly" bump into some of your friends one day. Then he will find out there is nothing to be worried about.


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